Earlier this month, Ryan Gosling cast girlfriend Eva Mendes in his directorial debut, How to Catch a Monster. With production on the fantasy film set to begin this May, Gosling is a few months away from the joys and challenges of directing a significant other.
But Gosling is hardly the first director to cast his sweetheart in his own movie. Woody Allen is famous for dating (and sometimes marrying) many of his leading ladies, and Paul Newman also directed wife Joanne Woodward in multiple films.
Here’s a round-up of other men who have directed their actress significant others – some of whom are still going strong, while others’ relationships are in the rear-view mirror.
Paul W.S. Anderson and Milla Jovovich
This couple met while working on 2002’s Resident Evil. Since they began dating in 2003 (with a wedding following in 2009), Anderson and Jovovich have made four more films in the lucrative zombie franchise. The British director also cast his wife in his 2011 adaptation of The Three Musketeers.
Anderson on directing Jovovich: “I always call her the hardest working person in show business. I’ve never met an actor as dedicated as she is. She’s like the Terminator, relentless. It can be 2 a.m. in the morning, and she suggests we talk about some aspect of the film. How about we don’t, Milla? But we both just love making movies.” [Huffington Post]
Jovovich on working with Anderson: “I tell Paul every day, he spoils me. It is such a pleasure. We have our family together. We do these fun movies together. What am I going to do when I have to go work with somebody else?” [Huffington Post]
Are they still together? Yep. And they’re planning to continue their working relationship too – both are expected to return for a sixth Resident Evil installment.
Len Wiseman and Kate Beckinsale
While Anderson is directing zombie-slaying Jovovich, Wiseman directs his butt-kicking wife in vampire series Underworld. He also cast her in last summer’s Total Recall remake.
Wiseman on directing Beckinsale’s love scenes with other men: “It’s amazing how much your blood boils immediately if you call cut and it doesn’t stop right way. On Underworld, I was being very polite and they didn’t hear me. You’ve got to stop when I call cut. So now I make a point of having a megaphone during love scenes.” [Celebuzz]
Still together? Yes. Things didn’t work out as well for Beckinsale and longtime boyfriend Michael Sheen – who got a part in Underworld thanks to Beckinsale’s recommendation – when the English actress ended up falling for her director. But Sheen kept things classy and amicable: He returned for the 2006 sequel and 2009 prequel, starring opposite his ex.
Sam Mendes and Kate Winslet
This pair had already racked up a combined five Oscar nominations by the time Winslet set her heart on adapting 1961 book Revolutionary Road. They teamed their talents together when Winslet convinced her husband to helm the project. She also brought aboard her Titanic co-star and best friend, Leonardo DiCaprio, to play her character’s husband in the story of a troubled marriage.
Mendes on directing Winslet: “It was very exhilarating to finally work with my wife, and I saw a side of her I just didn’t know. I suppose I was really struck by two things: One is just her attention to detail, and the other is when she’s acting she looks like my Kate – her face is no different, she’s not wearing prosthetics and there’s no ageing or anything like that – but she is just a different person. I didn’t see her on the set – I just saw the character she was playing. It was remarkable.” [The Telegraph]
”I will admit it was quite bizarre to direct my wife in how to make love. But it’s difficult whether you’re married to a person or not.” [EW]
Winslet filming love scenes with DiCaprio: ”I just kept saying, ‘This is too f—ing weird.’ And Leo was like, ‘Oh, get over it.’ And I’m going, ‘Yeah, a little reminder: You’re my best friend. He’s my husband. This is a bit weird.”’ [EW]
Still together? Nope. Winslet and Mendes split in 2010. Last year, she married
her soulmate Leo Richard Branson’s nephew, Ned Rocknroll.
Tim Burton and Helena Bonham Carter
This endearingly eccentric pair met while filming 2001’s Planet of the Apes. Since then, Burton has cast Bonham Carter in every feature he’s directed, with the exception of last year’s Frankenweenie.
Burton on directing Bonham Carter: “It’s quite easy. The fact is, before I met her, she’d done lots of things. She’s very secure in what she does. There’s no conflict. She’s the most secure actress I’ve ever met. So there are no problems – yet!… When we did Sweeney Todd, I didn’t want to seem like I was giving the job to my girlfriend or anything. I was probably harder on her for that reason – I just wanted to make sure that she was really, really right for it.” [Total Film]
Still together? Yes. They haven’t tied the knot yet, though Bonham Carter has said that their two children have repeatedly pestered her and Burton to get married.