Erin Strecker
March 01, 2013 AT 01:00 PM EST

The ladies finally get to have their revenge when they spill all the behind-the-scenes dirt during the upcoming The Bachelor: Women Tell All special. Check out an exclusive deleted scene, which shows Selma explaining her decision not to kiss Sean. She also reveals via a well-placed “no comment” that she is locking lips with “kissing bandit” Arie Luyendyk. See? Losing has its “perks.” Watch below:

Tune in for The Bachelor: Women Tell All Monday at 8 p.m. on ABC.

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