''My personal problems are my country's problems. My history is this forsaken country's history.'' In Samrat Upadhyay's minimally embellished debut novel, The Guru of Love, the story of a married Nepali math tutor in love with his student, is poignantly linked to the unstable political climate of Nepal, a country torn between tradition and modernism. Touching on such themes as infidelity, class snobbery, teenage rebellion, and in-law warfare, ''Guru of Love'' may sound like a modern-day soap opera, but it reads like a graceful, page-turning mixture of stirring romance and social commentary.

