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Readers 'Fess Up: My Big Fat Pop Culture-Packed Wedding

We asked that our DJ play the theme song from Buffy the Vampire Slayer, then follow that immediately with ''Under Your Spell,'' Willow and Tara's love song from the Buffical, ''Once More With Feeling.'' He was happy to do it, and even happier when it resulted in about a dozen people (the husband and me included) dancing frantically for about 60 seconds, then remaining on the dance floor for a slow dance, at which point a lot of other people joined us, not realizing they were dancing to a lesbian love song from a fantasy TV show. It made me happy to bring that tiny bit of subversion to my WASPy (but wonderful) family. — mcm

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