It began on the red carpet. ''They didn't say anything about legs!'' a coy J. Lo quipped, referring to a leaked CBS dress code memo. And she still had a sense of humor about it by the time she got on stage as a presenter (alongside a flashback for TV audiences to her classic super-low-cut Grammys dress, as if we had forgotten her outrageous outfit of 2000). ''As you can see,'' she assured the audience, ''I read the memo.'' In your face, CBS!