The frock Maynard wore to the first rose ceremony wasn't her first choice. ''She wanted to wear a big romantic gown, but I told her that it was important that she wear something the guys would see and think, 'Whoa!' '' Fetman says. ''This [Jean Fares] gown was hot. Every time one of the guys walked in, you could see him eye her up and down. You have to know the difference between a dress that women will think is sexy and a dress that men will think is sexy.''